A space for the ones who light up every room — and quietly burn out alone.
Welcome to The Lightholder Counseling
This is where
the work begins.
If you've tried therapy before and walked away feeling like it wasn't quite right, I want you to know: that experience is worth trusting.
Not every approach fits every person, and that is exactly as it should be. This space is built specifically for women like you—warm, relational, and designed to lead to deep, lasting change.
I offer virtual therapy to women throughout Silicon Valley, including San Jose, Santa Clara, Sunnyvale, Mountain View, Cupertino, Palo Alto, Los Gatos, and Los Altos.
You pour so much heart and energy into your career, your family, and your life. This is the space where you finally get to pour back into yourself, making everything you do feel sustainable.
Services
Welcome to a warm, compassionate space offering flexible telehealth services designed to support your personal healing, documentation needs, and professional clinical growth from the comfort of your own space
A warm, specialized virtual space for women ready to release the weight of childhood survival, chronic anxiety, and overwhelm
A supportive, accessible space for agency and private practice clinicians looking to deepen their trauma frameworks and grow in confidence.
Accessible, supportive evaluation services tailored to help you secure the documentation and emotional support accommodations you need.
You have taken care of absolutely everything.
Except yourself.
For the ones who hold it all
And yet something underneath is quietly fraying.
The anxiety that won't quit. The perfectionism that drives you forward and drains you dry. The exhaustion of being everything to everyone while quietly wondering when it's your turn. The nagging sense that no matter how much you achieve, how well you parent, how carefully you hold your relationships together — it's never quite enough. You're never quite enough.
And you deserve more than just pushing through.
You've built a life that looks like success from the outside. You hit the targets, manage the chaos, and show up for absolutely everyone— you did all the things you were "supposed to" do. You built the career, or the family, or both. You're the one people count on at work, at home, in every room you walk into.
This is a different kind of investment.
Connect
Contact
hello@thelightholdercounseling.com
+1-669-250-1296
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